I sent my boyfriend's Mom some flowers & she didn't say Thank You ... Should I call her and ask her WHY??

I posted a question some time ago 4 advice where my boyfriend %26amp; I had a nasty argument %26amp; said things to hurt each other. I hit "below the belt" %26amp; made insulting comments about his mom %26amp; son. This was 3-4 weeks ago. Things have been tense with us since. He hasn't been calling me but I sent xmas gifts to him anyway %26amp; I sent his Mom flowers. I requested "same day" delivery (which would be yesterday) but I didn't get confirmation until TODAY that she got the flowers yesterday @ 4pm. Now I'm wondering why neither of them called to say Thank You? I'm also wondering if his Mom knows about the argument we had where I said bad things about her %26amp; maybe that's why I didn't get a THANK YOU for flowers I sent. I asked by boyfriend back then if he told his Mom about the argument, he told me "No", that he doesn't discuss his personal biz with his Mom. I'm wondering if he lied %26amp; told her what happened %26amp; that's why I haven't heard a Thank you. I want to CALL HER %26amp; ask but something's telling me not to.

I sent my boyfriend's Mom some flowers %26amp; she didn't say Thank You ... Should I call her and ask her WHY??
Don't call - pretty sure she knows about the remarks you made in the "heat of the moment". Just let it be.
Reply:as much as you want to find out , do not call her, give her sometime.. if she calls, then you'll feel a lot better. But if she doesn't call, then you know how she feels toward you( might be forgetful too)
Reply:may take some time - - u can always call and ask "did u get the flowers?" but, don't ask why there was no thank you.


unfortuately some people are just like that.


u made a nice effort.
Reply:Don't call! This could make things worse if he did tell her. You know that you did the right thing. So don't let it bother you if she doesn't thank you.
Reply:it will be better for you to ask her for reasons than to keep it in you.
Reply:Don't ask anything. To forgive is divine. Please, forgive her.
Reply:you can call her and ask how's she but DON'T ASK WHY SHE HASN'T THANKED YOU
Reply:no, dont call. i would leave well enough alone.
Reply:Don't call right away, your probably right that he did tell his mother when people are angry they say things that they shouldn't and because you hit below the belt the chances are he would have said something to her. Wait a little bit longer and if you don't get the thank you call from his mother then you know for sure he told her. Call her in a couple of days and ask her if she got her gifts. Then you'll get your answers then. Good luck and next time think before you speak ok . Happy holidays
Reply:I would keep quiet, back away and stay out of thie situation. Let them make the next move towards thank you.


I nothing happens, then it is pretty clear how the other side feels here
Reply:Don't call. If she wants to be a jerk, let her. But don't make things worse.
Reply:Mabey he is lieing he might of told her!! Was u and her ok before the argument or did yall tlk it all depends.Call her and tlk to her but dont ask her why she didnt say thank you%26gt;Ask her if she liked the flowers then it might get on the subject just follow ur instinct i hope it works out!!!!%26gt;!%26gt;!%26gt;!%26gt;!





staceylu
Reply:don't call. that would not be appropriate. Boy friend, every body has disagreements. Learn first to control the tongue when angry, then


at the right time, go for a soda and/or coffee the two of you and talk about it. Talk it out and apologoze if necessary and you were in the wrong. When some day you marry, you can't just sling insults, talk about it civil.

skates